“Don’t move the way fear makes you move. Move the way joy makes you move” Osho.
Usually, if you face a hard decision, and you ask yourself “Where does joy take me?”, you’ll often immediately know the answer.
If joy is what you’re seeking in life (you probably are), you should start making decisions based on that.
P.S. The joy is in going for a run, not sitting home eating that cookie. There’s a difference between joy and comfort.
P.P.S. 1 year later, still a strong believer in this. This is how I took the decision to move to Europe, and it turned out to be great.